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In “Every Young Man’s Battle,” Stephen Arterburn quotes David, a 17-year-old, who said: Let me say this: it is possible to masturbate with a clean mind and eyes, because I’ve done it.I have to tell you, however, that it really takes a long time without visual stimulation or fantasizing – even if I’m trying to get it over quick. That isn’t good because then my motor is riding the red line, and then the mind gets difficult to control, and I drop back into sin.It’s a way of taking life into our own hands, literally, and trusting ourselves to meet our perceived needs and desires rather than God.
A godly man who taught me as a young Christian used to say to our men’s small group Bible study that while the Bible doesn’t mention masturbation, it clearly states that lust is a sin.I honestly wish I felt as bad about, say, lying, envy or murder.Let’s take comfort and encouragement where it can be found, and there’s a good bit of it in Scripture’s silence on the topic.Perhaps the most concise apologetic for “why” is found in Russell Willingham’s book “Breaking Free.” Here are a few of his reasons: Willingham says that masturbation violates biblical sexuality because when the Bible speaks of sex, it speaks of a union between a man and woman.
It’s a shared experience that ideally brings us out of ourselves and into the mind/soul of another.Masturbation seems to fall short of this design, and in the act and the residual guilt, it does the opposite. Masturbation skews our view of sex into being about our pleasure and a quick fix rather than the focus being on giving and intimacy in a committed marriage relationship.